Resources near New York City

Hi. I a 61 year old male RN recently diagnosed with Bipolar I. Yes, it's true, I've been arranging my life all these years to cope with an illness I didn't know I had. Well, I've reached the end of the self-help road, and am looking for someone who practices Family Focused Therapy to help deal with my illness. I'm on lithium and it seems to be working, especially now that I am off ritalin and cymbalta. Yes, someone thought I needed an antidepressant, and when I showed up at the office 4 months later, with pressured speech I was put on ritalin. Fast forward, nd I mean fast, to now. Is there an association of FFT trained therapists that you might knw uof? I'm about 100 miless from New York city. thanks