How should I approach discussing a retirement home with an elder?
My elderly loved one is very independent and has always lived on her own. I know now that she needs more help, but she doesn't want to move to a retirement home. Are there good ways to approach this subject? Also, where would I go to find information on licensed services that provide care in the home?
You may want to consult your loved one's doctor for suggestions on how to bring this issue up. In addition, you may also want to talk with other family members. The Home Caregivers Accreditation of America (877-947-3472, www.hcaoa.org) is a great resource to help you find homecare services.
Other resources include:
- Jewish Family Services of Los Angeles (323-761-8800, www.jfsla.org)
- The Huntington Memorial Hospital Senior Care Network (626-397-3110)
- Health City at www.healthycity.org
- Elder Link free Senior Referral Service www.elderlink.org
- California Registry of Residential Facilities www.calregistry.org Connections Referral Service www.carehomefinders.com
